שאלה
hi im a girl 23 old im in australia now and i have a quatiotain about my family name
if i will want to get married to some1 that he is not a jew and if he will become a jew so its still will b a problem to get married to him because my family name is cohen?
what are the rolls about cohen woman who want to get married?
cause i know my self i dont like the israeli guys and i know that may b it can happen 1 day
and my father said that he wont talk with me and when i travell i met a woman that it happen to her
till today her parent wont talk with her.
thanks about your time and have a lovely day
תשובה
Bs"d
Shalom,
U have a special privilege- your family name indicates u belong to the Cohanim meaning the priests of the Jewish people.
Our nation, the Jewish nation, being one of the most ancient and special of nations has succeeded in holding together and surviving and living on by knowing our special task in this world- to in light the world morally and spiritually. The Cohanim r at the head of this task.
Marring a non-Jewish guy means giving up our eternal values and believes and our special virtues. Should someone wish to join our nation, he must wish to do so in order to take a part in our holy mission and not to be able to marry someone- that would be a lie, wouldn’t it?
Marring some1 from our own is not about your family name, or about your fathe not talking to u- it is about who u r? what is your life about? Your roots, your history, your legacy – those r things that make us who we r- r u ready to give them up???
There r so many different Jewish guys all over the plant that r so different from each other- u can never ever say "I don’t like Israeli guys " u never really checked…
Decide u want to be who u really r- a daughter to a special and holy nation and marry a true son to his nation and tradition
May g-d be with u
Or
Tzfat
Israel
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